You are to blame for your poverty. You need to stop attributing racial inequalities to your "inability" to succeed. All you need to to do is stop being lazy and then you too can own a white colonial in the suburbs next to Bob and Cindy, have two kids who attend the local private school, own a dog, and two cars. You are lazy, and if you just played the rules of the game then you could have it all.
MEN. That is the most interesting aspect of all of it: the intersection of black patriarchy and respectability politics. Respectability politics are an aspect of black patriarchy and are infused with a very sexist ideology. Bill Cosby, Don Lemon and Morgan Freeman are agents in their own oppression, and by buying into this idea that we live in a color blind society, they are colluding in white supremacy.